Inventory reaches clients only through the republished calendar event,
and until now a publish that failed or was skipped left no durable
trace — only a log line, if that. Twice the drift was caught by a human
reading a wrong number on a public page (#35 on aio-demo, #51 on cfaun,
where an event's relay copy sat 14 days behind the DB).
Adds `events.nostr_publish_pending`, set before every attempt and
cleared only on a confirmed success. Ordering it that way is what makes
"the attempt was never made" — no signer resolved, no NostrClient, the
process died mid-flight — as discoverable as "the attempt raised". Both
shapes have now been observed in production; only the second one was
ever visible.
`set_ticket_paid` raises the flag inside its own update so the counters
and "the relay doesn't know about them yet" commit atomically, and the
sale path pays no extra write.
`publish_or_delete_nostr_event` now returns a bool so callers can
branch. The flag, not the return value, is the durable record — the
existing call sites stay correct ignoring it.
Publish failures move from WARNING to ERROR: the published ticket count
has stopped tracking reality, which is not routine journal noise.
Refs #35
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