feat(extensions): add extension loader infrastructure (#3)

## Summary

- Adds a modular extension system for Lightning.Pub enabling third-party plugins
- Provides isolated SQLite databases per extension for data safety
- Implements ExtensionContext API for accessing Lightning.Pub services (payments, Nostr, storage)
- Supports RPC method registration with automatic namespacing
- Includes HTTP route handling for protocols like LNURL
- Event routing for payment receipts and Nostr events
- Comprehensive documentation with architecture overview and working examples

## Key Components

- `src/extensions/types.ts` - Core extension interfaces
- `src/extensions/loader.ts` - Extension discovery, loading, and lifecycle management
- `src/extensions/context.ts` - Bridge between extensions and Lightning.Pub services
- `src/extensions/database.ts` - SQLite isolation with WAL mode
- `src/extensions/README.md` - Full documentation with examples

## ExtensionContext API

| Method | Description |
|--------|-------------|
| `getApplication()` | Get application info |
| `createInvoice()` | Create Lightning invoice |
| `payInvoice()` | Pay Lightning invoice |
| `getLnurlPayInfo()` | Get LNURL-pay info for a user (enables Lightning Address/zaps) |
| `sendEncryptedDM()` | Send Nostr DM (NIP-44) |
| `publishNostrEvent()` | Publish Nostr event |
| `registerMethod()` | Register RPC method |
| `onPaymentReceived()` | Subscribe to payment callbacks |
| `onNostrEvent()` | Subscribe to Nostr events |

## Test plan

- [x] Review extension loader code for correctness
- [x] Verify TypeScript compilation succeeds
- [x] Test extension discovery from `src/extensions/` directory
- [x] Test RPC method registration and routing
- [x] Test database isolation between extensions

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Co-authored-by: boufni95 <boufni95@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Patrick Mulligan <patjmulligan@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-on: #3

.dockerignore

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+# Runtime state files (should not be baked into image)
+*.sqlite
+*.sqlite-journal
+*.sqlite-wal
+*.sqlite-shm
+*.db
+admin.connect
+admin.enroll
+admin.npub
+app.nprofile
+.jwt_secret
+
+# Runtime data directories
+metric_cache/
+metric_events/
+bundler_events/
+logs/