mega chore: update sqlalchemy (#2611)

* update sqlalchemy to 1.4
* async postgres

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Co-authored-by: Pavol Rusnak <pavol@rusnak.io>

pyproject.toml

@@ -16,25 +16,25 @@ python = "^3.12 | ^3.11 | ^3.10 | ^3.9"
 bech32 = "1.2.0"
 click = "8.1.7"
 ecdsa = "0.19.0"
-fastapi = "0.112.0"
+fastapi = "0.113.0"
 httpx = "0.27.0"
 jinja2 = "3.1.4"
 lnurl = "0.5.3"
-psycopg2-binary = "2.9.9"
-pydantic = "1.10.17"
+pydantic = "1.10.18"
 pyqrcode = "1.2.1"
 shortuuid = "1.0.13"
-sqlalchemy = "1.3.24"
-sqlalchemy-aio = "0.17.0"
 sse-starlette = "1.8.2"
 typing-extensions = "4.12.2"
-uvicorn = "0.30.5"
+uvicorn = "0.30.6"
+sqlalchemy = "1.4.54"
+aiosqlite = "0.20.0"
+asyncpg = "0.29.0"
 uvloop = "0.19.0"
 websockets = "11.0.3"
 loguru = "0.7.2"
-grpcio = "1.65.5"
-protobuf = "5.27.3"
-pyln-client = "24.5"
+grpcio = "1.66.1"
+protobuf = "5.28.0"
+pyln-client = "24.8.1"
 pywebpush = "1.14.1"
 slowapi = "0.1.9"
 websocket-client = "1.8.0"
@@ -70,11 +70,11 @@ black = "^24.8.0"
 pytest-asyncio = "^0.21.2"
 pytest = "^8.3.2"
 pytest-cov = "^4.1.0"
-mypy = "^1.11.1"
+mypy = "^1.11.2"
 types-protobuf = "^5.27.0.20240626"
 pre-commit = "^3.8.0"
 openapi-spec-validator = "^0.7.1"
-ruff = "^0.5.7"
+ruff = "^0.6.4"
 types-passlib = "^1.7.7.20240327"
 openai = "^1.39.0"
 json5 = "^0.9.25"
@@ -84,7 +84,7 @@ pytest-httpserver = "^1.1.0"
 pytest-mock = "^3.14.0"
 types-mock = "^5.1.0.20240425"
 mock = "^5.1.0"
-grpcio-tools = "^1.65.5"
+grpcio-tools = "^1.66.1"
 
 [build-system]
 requires = ["poetry-core>=1.0.0"]
@@ -126,7 +126,6 @@ module = [
   "secp256k1.*",
   "uvicorn.*",
   "sqlalchemy.*",
-  "sqlalchemy_aio.*",
   "websocket.*",
   "websockets.*",
   "pyqrcode.*",
@@ -136,7 +135,6 @@ module = [
   "bolt11.*",
   "bitstring.*",
   "ecdsa.*",
-  "psycopg2.*",
   "pyngrok.*",
   "pyln.client.*",
   "py_vapid.*",